This movie is about friends who decide to have casual sex while remaining unattached. I feel like this movie represents what people some do instead of being in a relationship ,because relationships are hard if you do not get to know the person first or go to fast by jumping into a relationship with someone. It is no secret that everyone wants love but I think some people are looking in the wrong places and approaching it in a way that it ends up not working out for them. I think some people are so desperate for love that they think they like someone ,but they are not compatible with that person enough to have something long term. I think the people that are so eager to find love and get married need to take some time and get to know themselves and then when they are not looking ,they will find the one for them without even trying. People will be pleasantly surprised by this technique to find love and happiness with someone.
In this movie, the characters try to find love other than each other ,but then find that they have fallen for each other from spending so much time together ,a connection has formed. At first neither one of them want to admit that they have feelings for each other ,but as time goes on ,they confess their love for each other by the end of the movie. After they confess their love they decide to go on real dates ,but end up just wanting to be physical with each other. I think this movie can help many people gain perspective on their relationships and the way that they approach trying to find someone. I feel like if someone wants to find someone they need to put less effort into it ,and the right person will come along. I feel like when people put too much effort into they end up finding the wrong person for them or they chase away potential life partners.
I know being Friend With Benefits is not the best way to start a relationship ,but I think being friends with someone first and really getting to know someone without any type of commitment or pressure to get married is the best way to go when trying to find a life partner. This will allow both people really get to know each other ,and either there will be a connection or there will not. If there is a connection between two friends then it will possibly get stronger and form into a relationship that each person is happy with and each person is willing to go further. If there is not a connection between two friends then either they will just stay friends or grow apart and loose touch with each other ,and end up with other people. I know there are different kinds of love stories and not everyone will have the same type of love story ,and that is ok ,because if everyone had the same type of love story ,then life would be boring and predictable. Overall, I enjoyed watching this movie ,because it is a light hearted comedy and modern love story.
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